What I Want For You

What I Want For You: A boy who would move the hair away from your eyes. Hold your hand in line at the mall and make all the girls jealous. Someone who would sing to you at random moments. A boy who would get mad at someone if they called you ugly or was mean to you. Someone who would let you gossip to him and would just smile and agree with everything you said. He would throw stuffed animals at you when you acted dumb and then kiss you a million times. He would take you to the park and put his hands around your waist and give you a big bear hug. He would tell all his friends about you and smile when he did it. You'd argue about silly thing and then make up. I want a boy that would count stars with you. Someone who would tell you you're beautiful but not too often. Who would make you laugh like no one else could. But mostly, I want someone who would be your best friend and would never break your heart.

This quote was on a board in my friend's room and I automatically fell in love with it. It reminds me how I want this and so much more in a guy and that if I'm patient, God will send him to me. I won't settle for anything less than what he has in store for me. That can be hard to remember sometimes because I know that I would love to be in a relationship with someone, just like any other girl would. It can be hard when you see everyone else posting about how amazing their boyfriend is on Facebook and you can't help but wish you could post sappy statuses too. I know God has amazing plans for me though and I'm just trying to stay busy until they start happening.

Before I end this rant, I just want to say how much the last sentence speaks to me. In my opinion, a relationship should always start as a strong and sound friendship. Sure things may not be what you imagined at first, but just give it time to develop and it will be worth it. Someone who truly cares about you won't just jump ship at the first sign of trouble; they will stick out through the good times and the bad. Sometimes people make mistakes though and it will take them awhile to figure it out. I full-heartedly believe that everyone deserves a second chance unless they prove otherwise. God has given us a second chance, so why not follow suit?