Friday, November 18, 2011

What A Girl Wants

I found this online and I really like it.  There was a lot more to it, but I just chose my favorites and few are tweeked just a bit, by yours truly. It just gives guys some tips on how a girl wants to be treated and what she's thinking. :)
All girls secretly love a guy who can sing.
Just so you know, girls want to smell you from 10, 6, or even 2 feet away.
Girls HATE players!!!!
We love it when you put your arm around us at the movies (especially the scary ones).
We don't need you to be Superman. We just need you to be there.
Pretty much all girls like to talk about something, so feel free to call us.
We LOVE surprises. That is, the good ones.
Don't ever try to impress us by cursing or fighting. It doesn't work; you just look like a jerk.
When you pick on the girl you like, she won't think you’re interested or cool. She'll just think that you're mean. (Ah the logic... of girls...)
Every girl wants to feel special, even if it’s just to you.
Being able to make your girl laugh= MAJOR brownie points!
We absolutely HATE it when you break a promise to us. It completely devastates us.
Here's something that girls are taught: When a guy says that you're hot, he's looking at your body. When he says that you're pretty, he's looking at your face. When he says that you're beautiful, he's looking at your heart. Remember that when you compliment a girl......
Ask any girl... She'll have no idea what the hell a guy means when he says that she's "cute".
We can tell when you aren't listening, and, yeah, it kind of pisses us off. If were boring you, at least have the decency to tell us!
When we say that we're cold, we either want you to come closer or give us your jacket. Tip: If you really want to impress your girl, hold her tight and put your jacket around her while you're still wearing it. It’s amazingly romantic! (As long as you don't grope her)
Hugs can mean more than kisses sometimes.
If you wait for the perfect moment, the perfect moment will pass you by. In other words, if you want to ask her out, just do it!
Please give us the same respect you would to any other human and look us in the eyes (Yes we do notice when your eyes wander).
We want the same respect that you give to other guys, but we really don't want you to treat us like them... (Chest bumps are never ok)
If you ask us nicely, we'll usually answer in the same way.
It takes a special kind of stupid to forget birthdays.
Anything you say or do with another girl that you don't want us to know is considered cheating.
When you say you don't like it when we wear makeup, don't just leave it at that. It helps to tell us why.
It absolutely floors us when you know our favorite color, flower, T.V. show, movie, artist, etc. See, we aren't that hard to please.
This one may seem weird. We love keeping your hoodies/jackets because: they remind us of you, they smell like you, and it makes us feel like you're there holding us even when you aren't.
NEVER EVER HIT A GIRL!!!!!!!!! Even if she hits you first....it's just wrong.
When you're dating a girl and you introduce her to your friends, you had better say that she's your girlfriend.
When it comes to gifts, we'd prefer something that has meaning rather than something with a big price tag.
The best thing that you can be to any girl is her friend. Friendship always comes before any good romantic relationship.
Have I mentioned that we like respect?
All girls want to be told I LOVE YOU now and then and possibly whisper it in her ear when you are having a moment.
Usually, when a girl is sarcastically mean to you, it means she's attracted to you, but she's afraid that she'll be showing too much.
When you calm a girl down (and believe me, you will need to do this someday), try your hardest to make her laugh, but never make her feel stupid for being so worked up in the first place.
Keep in mind that pretty much every girl has a group of guys (friends, brothers and her Daddy) who will beat the crap out of you if cross the line.
Girls don’t like show-offs. Just be yourself we'll like you better that way and if a girl doesn’t like the real you she's not worth your time.
Face it. Girls really aren't impressed when you spend the whole day showing off your muscles...
When she’s upset hold her and tell her she'll be fine even if she says it won’t, convince her it will be.
Don't disrespect her in ANYWAY.
Now and again flatter her with compliments.
Don't think that just because you didn't tell us we are never going to find out.
Our friends know EVERYTHING and EVERYTHING said to our friends will be told to us. Guaranteed.
No matter what we say, we hate your ex-girlfriend.
We check our phones every hour to see if you have replied to our texts, then worry if you haven't.
The fact you might leave us for another girl keeps us up at night.
When we're not talking to you on IM, we're actually waiting for you to talk to us (in a non-snobby way, we want to see if you still care enough to talk to us).
When we act sad, we want you to hug us.
We actually freak out on what to do during holidays like Valentine’s Day.
We don't care what our friends think of you, but we do care what your friends think of us.
We are very, very scared of scaring you away.
We don't care about what we talk about, just as long as we have your attention for a few minutes.
We have mood swings. Get over it.
Every time you're around other girls, we worry they are better than us.
We don't want to hear how cool your ex-girlfriend/neighbor/best gal friend is.
We will move mountains on our timetable if it means seeing you.
We compare every other guy to you, and you always come out best.
Don't brag about other girls liking you, it just makes us insecure.
When we say everything is 'fine', it generally means everything is absolutely horrible and we are on the brink of falling to pieces. Don't just say 'ok' when we say we don't want to talk about it.
If you do not hug us, we will not kiss you.
We think you are the best guy in the world.
We really do want you to stick up for us.
Compliments. We love them.
Be on time. We will think you don't care if you're not on time at a certain place.
Whether you say luv or love does matter.
We don't care if you couldn't come on that date because of the most embarrassing reason in the world, just don't lie to us.
We like cuddling up to you so let us.
Silent Treatment + Short Answers + Not Smiling or Laughing + Evil Looks = YOU DID SOMETHING WRONG.
Do not make fun of us unless we are in a good mood. As insecure as girls go, we take these things very seriously.
Saying something sweet MIGHT get you off the hook. Doing something sweet will ALWAYS get you off the hook.
We never forget things. Ever.
We over-analyze everything.  We over-react to everything.
We don't like being used.
We like it when you do un-expected nice things.
We usually don't let just any guy make us cry, so if you make us cry, you must have done something bad...
This is the way it works: You don't give us any attention, we dump you. It is NOT: You don't give us any attention, we chase after you. Deal with it.
We like it when you are protective of us. It makes us feel special.
Unless she is a moronic idiot, a girl who truly loves you will love you for a long, long time.
When we come back from a holiday and brag about how awesome it was, during the entire time there we were probably thinking about you. A lot.
No matter where we are or what we are doing, we really want you to hold our hand.
When you break her heart, the pain never really goes away.
When she misses you, she's hurting inside.
When she walks away from you mad, follow her.
When she stares at your mouth, kiss her.
When she pushes or hits you, grab her tight & don't let her go.
When she starts cursing at you, kiss her and tell her you love her.
When she ignores you, give her your attention.
When you see her at her worst, tell her she's beautiful.
When you see her crying, just hold her and don't say a word.
When you see her walking, sneak up and hug her waist from behind.
When she's scared, protect her.
When she lays her head on your shoulder, tilt her head up and kiss her.
When she steals your favorite jacket, let her keep it and sleep with it for a night.
When she teases you, tease her back and make her laugh.
When she doesn't answer for a long time, reassure her that everything is okay.
When she looks at you with doubt, back yourself up with the truth.
When she says that she likes you, she really does more than you could understand.
When she grabs your hands, hold hers and play with her fingers.
When she bumps into you, bump into her back and make her laugh.
When she tells you a secret, keep it safe and untold.
When she looks at you in your eyes, don’t look away until she does.
Stay on the phone with her even if she’s not saying anything.
Don't let her have the last word.
Say you love her more than she could ever love you.
Argue that she is the best girl ever.
Call her at 12:00am on special occasions to tell her you love her.
Call her before you sleep and after you wake up.
Treat her like she's all that matters to you.
Don't ignore her when she's out with you and your friends.
Stay up all night with her when she's sick.
Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think it’s stupid.
Let her into your world.
Let her wear your clothes.
When she's bored and sad, hang out with her
Let her know she's important.
Kiss her in the pouring rain.
After she reads this, she hopes one day you'd read it too.

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